Azithi dadobawo
Is a colloquial Xhosa term for crazy or mentally disturbed.
It is mostly used as an insult.
Ingathi azithi dadobawo pha apha kuwe wena.
Indlala
Indlala is the formal Xhosa term for hunger or poverty.
Also see Ikati ilele eziko
Indlala inamanyala and it can make you do anything.
Woman on top
Is the sexual position where the woman goes on top of a man (AKA cowgirl).
A lot of women struggle with woman on top.